snoring and alcohol
Should I be worried that my 57 year old husband was out last night with 2 women & a man in their 20’s?

Last night my husband of 30 years went out for dinner with 3 younger coworkers(2 women,1man all in their 20’s). They work for him at a college & were celebrating the end of the year. He came in before 11pm but had obviously been drinking a lot. He reeked of alcohol, tossed & turned, snored a little, slept some but seemed very restless &,what bothered me most, was he never tried to cuddle with me – and we always do that no matter how late he comes in. He’s been out with these people during the year too & they all work together 10-12 hours a day at least 6 days a week.
When I got up repeatedly during the night because his restlesness was waking me, he woke up but never said a word. He left for work an hour ago (now 5:30am) & barely kissed me goodbye, hardly said a word. Why am I so upset? Why was I crying whenever I got up? What am I missing here? Am I just being paranoid?

You’re missing an invitation to go with. It is doubtful anything happened that could not have happened with you there. However the mind can magnify a problem and turn it into a blunt force trauma to the emotions. Sounds like yours has been working over time. Suggest you sit down your inattentive husband tell him you’re suffering and not happy about being left out. Ask if he will consider making a phone call and asking you to join in next time he parties with the young folks. Meanwhile take a nap exhaustion won’t make it a nice chat it will turn things into a fight. Be attractive when you have the chat your best you will get invited out a shrew will sound shrill and bring out the beast in the old boy. Good luck!